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Many parents are raising children with a large age difference, which presents a series of unique benefits and challenges. Understanding how your kids are feeling, communicating clearly and making them all feel important can help your children form a strong bond.

Benefits and Challenges of a Large Age Gap
A wide difference in age can help older siblings learn patience and responsibility and become role models for their younger brothers and sisters. Parents may have more energy to devote to the needs of younger children and may get help from older siblings. An age gap may also mean less financial stress, since several kids won’t be attending daycare or preparing for college at the same time.

A significant age difference can be challenging because of the vastly different needs of infants and toddlers compared to adolescents. It can be difficult for parents to accommodate the needs of older children, such as helping with homework and providing rides to extracurricular activities, if a younger child may need to eat, sleep or have a diaper changed at any time. Older kids may feel neglected or less important, which may lead to resentment.

How to Help Your Kids Form Strong Bonds
Talk to your older children about a younger sibling’s development. Explain that toddlers and elementary schoolers need time to learn to communicate and follow directions. Help older children be patient and understanding, but also allow them to vent if they feel frustrated.

Encourage your older children to help take care of their younger siblings by assisting with feeding, changing, dressing and babysitting. An older brother or sister can be part of important developmental milestones, such as teaching a younger sibling to walk, talk and read. A young child may look up to an older sibling as a role model, which can give the older child a unique sense of pride.

Your older kids may enjoy spending time with a younger sibling, but they’ll still need space and opportunities to pursue their own interests. Don’t place so much responsibility and such high expectations on older children that they feel like extra parents and become resentful.

It may be hard to find fun activities for the whole family. A trip to the beach or an amusement park can offer opportunities for the whole family to spend time together, and older children may be able to enjoy some activities on their own while a younger sibling is eating or napping.

Be sure to spend one-on-one time with your older kids to make them feel loved and valued. Positive relationships between older children and parents will contribute to a strong overall family bond.

Make the Most of an Age Gap
A large age difference offers an opportunity for siblings to form strong lifelong bonds. Help your older children understand the needs and perspective of a younger sibling and become role models, but make sure your older kids also feel free to be themselves and have positive relationships with other family members.

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